Ep.19: Being present while traveling (instead of partner-pleasing and constant worrying)

07/02/2024 47 min

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Traveling with boyfriends used to be a big deal in an anxiety-inducing way. I'd want everything to be perfect -- my outfits, our plans, our moods, his opinion of me... and even if things went well, I'd end up feeling robbed of my own enjoyment. Underneath all my efforts, I just wanted to have fun and be able to be present and *enjoy* my vacation with my partner -- the very idea! But it's not so simple as saying "just relax!", when you are struggling with knowing how to be yourself. But I'm here to tell you that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. This is a tale of two Vegas trips and how nothing had to change in order for me to have a beautiful new experience -- except my relationship with myself.

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