Listen "#063 Winning through giving inspired by Adam Grant"
Episode Synopsis
Have you ever felt that "Nice guys finish last"?We've all rooted for the underdog. The hero who helps others but is always left behind. However in the end, against all odds, finishes on top. This happens only in the movies right? When we look around, especially in the competitive business world, the reality seems grim. We see good people who give without expecting, being overshadowed by those who master the art of taking credit. I noticed this in my early career but with time a fascinating shift occurred - the power of reputation took control. People began to recognize who puts in the effort and who free rides. Givers start emerging on top.This revelation was solidified when I read Adam Grant's "Give and Take," thanks to a recommendation from my speaking mentor Avi Liran. Adam’s research showed that takers may have short-term gains, but it's the givers who truly come out on top. There’s a caveat though.In the latest episode of the How to Live Podcast, I build on Adam’s theory and introduce my thesis around meaningful and desperate giving, examine the dynamics of the asking-giving relationship, and yes reveal the caveat for thriving as a giver.Discover why not all forms of giving are created equal, and how to ensure your generosity leads to success.Episode Shownoteshttps://howtolive.life/episode/058-purpose-in-everyday-lifeRelated Episode#058 Purpose in everyday lifeSpotify: https://howtolive.life/ep58spotifyApple Podcasts: https://howtolive.life/ep58appleFor Folks Affected by Restructuring4 Week Career Transition Program. https://www.sharadlal.net/thrivethroughtransition How to Live NewsletterGo deeper with articles every 2-3 weeks. No spam. https://sharadlal.substack.com/ Leave us a messagehttps://howtolive.life/contactAbout Sharad Lalhttps://www.sharadlal.net/Follow usLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharadlal24/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PodcastHowtolive/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/podcasthowtolive/
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