#1 Cause of Conflict

29/10/2025 36 min
#1 Cause of Conflict

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Episode Synopsis

Feeling stuck in the same argument on repeat? In this episode, I dig into why “better communication tools” don’t stick and how a true shift happens when you change the engine of your conversations: your beliefs. Instead of white-knuckling behavior change from the caboose, we show how to start at the root—what you believe about yourself, your partner, conflict, and love—and let that new engine drive different thoughts, feelings, and actions.change vs transformation in marriagethe train model of belief, thought, feeling, actionwhy tools fail without belief shiftstension reframed as the birthplace of growthproving and protecting as the conflict loopsurvival needs of being right and in controlmoving to curiosity, humility and vulnerabilitypractical prompts to review recent conflictsbuilding a case for care and self-worthsmall steps to contribute newly in hard talksIf you want a community and more transformational distinctions, I invite you to join the Marriage Growth Community. The link is below. _______💥💥Everything you need to grow the marriage you long for is waiting for you in the Marriage Growth Community:https://beautifuloutcome.com/mgc-one-time-offer 🎁 Free Gift for you! 100 Prompts and Ideas to Connect with your Spouse! 🎁 FREE GIFT: Turn Defensiveness into Connection! https://beautifuloutcome.com/e-guide _ 👉 Take the free communication quiz! What’s YOUR communication type?! https://beautifuloutcome.com/communication-quiz _______Where you can find me:INSTAGRAM: Connect with me at @HeyJuliaWoodsYOUTUBE: Subscribe to @HeyJuliaWoodsSHOP: Marriage resources in my storefrontRETREATS: Attend a Marriage WorkshopWEBSITE: Find more resources at BeautifulOutcome.com FACEBOOK: ...