HOW PAST EMOTIONS RESURFACE DURING A DIVORCE EP 96HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Sharon Mosley, Sharon Mosley Mental Health Therapist SUMMARY: During a divorce, the long-buried emotional and psychological issues can resurface, intensifying the already challenging situation. Feelings of abandonment, betrayal, and inadequacy may reemerge, amplifying the conflicts between spouses. Unhealed wounds from the past can cloud judgment and hinder effective communication, leading to prolonged legal battles and heightened emotional turmoil. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, Host Beverly Price invites Sharon Mosley, a therapist and licensed mental health counselor with over 20 years of experience. They discuss the old tapes from our childhood and society that continue to play in our minds, how they can resurface during divorce, and what we can do about them to enhance our emotional and mental well-being. Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation. Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show! KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     Our past can resurface during divorce because so many of us as women have an identity as wives, and when divorce comes, and the title goes away, it can leave a big emotional gap.●     Emotional and verbal abuse in a relationship can trigger old tapes, make us discredit ourselves of what we can do, manifest physically, and impact our kids.●     Why is he doing this to me? Sometimes it may be a personal attack, and other times, it has very little to do with you; it is about something they have not resolved, and you become the target because you are close.●     Regardless of where you are, it takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about what is happening in your divorce. Why? Because whatever you feel is real, no one can tell you what to feel and what not to feel, and it’s not your fault. NOTABLE QUOTES:●     The question of “what can I do after the divorce” is often rooted in something from childhood or earlier experiences, and what happens with partners is they reinforce the very thing you are trying to get away from. (Sharon)●     Many women are dealing with emotional and verbal abuse and people putting them down. (Beverly)●     Some of the old tapes that tend to come back after divorce are, I’m a failure, I don’t matter, my life has little meaning, and It’s my fault. It’s my fault is a big one, and often, the guilt of something that is not your fault can come back (Sharon)●     The very person we are divorcing at some point was the very person we shared all or most of our intimate thoughts with, and they may know us better than just anyone; when we get to that place when we may no longer be friends, they know all the buttons to push to leave us in a vulnerable place. (Sharon)●     What is happening to you emotionally can have a physical impact; the...

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