If you’ve ever wondered how your insomnia actually started and why it’s been so hard to fix… this email is for you.Because insomnia develops in a fairly predictable way.And the science explains why so many people end up stuck in it long after the original stressor is gone.There are three ingredients that lead to chronic insomnia:Risk factors, a triggering event, and then sleep anxiety.Let’s walk through this.Step 1: Risk factors make you vulnerableThese are things in your life that increase your chances of developing insomnia.Examples include:A family history of insomniaPrior sleep difficultiesBeing female or getting olderHigh sensitivity to feeling bad when you don’t sleepPerfectionism or Type A tendenciesAnxiety, depression, or trauma historyHealth anxietyA strong need for control in lifeIf any of these sound familiar, you’re not alone.They don’t cause insomnia directly.But they do make you more likely to struggle when something stressful happens.Step 2: A triggering event causes short-term sleep disruptionThis is usually a stressful situation that temporarily disrupts your sleep.It might be:Work pressureA loss or grief​A new babyFinancial stressA health scareBig life changesOr even excitementThese events can make it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep for a while.This is completely normal.In most people, once the event passes, sleep returns to normal.But for others… it doesn’t.Step 3: Anxiety takes overWhen the short-term disruption doesn’t resolve, a deeper pattern starts to form.You begin to worry:“What if I can’t sleep again tonight?”“How will I function tomorrow?”That worry feels real—and your body reacts like it’s in danger.This triggers nervous system hyperarousal.You enter fight-or-flight mode… in bed.Your heart races.Your muscles stay tense.Your thoughts spiral.You get sudden jerks as you’re falling asleep.You wake up in the night, wired.You constantly monitor how close you are to sleep.Your body isn’t broken.It’s just been trained to associate nighttime with danger.This is why insomnia persists—even when the original stressor is long gone.So, what’s really going on?Insomnia is not a disease or a defect.It’s a learned pattern of fear and nervous system activation around sleep.And that’s actually good news.Because what is learned can be unlearned.Why this mattersUnderstanding that the root of insomnia is sleep anxiety and hyperarousal shifts everything.It’s not about fixing your sleep directly.It’s about calming your anxiety and retraining your nervous system to feel safe at night.That’s what the End Insomnia System is built to do.It’s not a set of sleep hacks.It’s a full transformation that helps you:Rewire your response to insomniaReverse hyperarousalAnd reduce the fear of not sleepingSo sleep starts happening naturally again.One final noteThis isn’t your fault.Insomnia develops from a storm of life stress, personality traits, and your body doing its best to protect you.But it’s also something you can work through.And you don’t have to do it alone.You’re not broken.You’re not alone.And you’re not stuck with...

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