Listen "6. How much time should you spend on dating?"
Episode Synopsis
If you want to find love, you need to make time for it.
How much time? Around 30 minutes a day to spend on dating sites/apps and talk to men plus a couple hours on the weekend for dates. This adds up to around 5 hours a week.
If you don’t have 5 hours a week to spend on dating, you DON’T have time for a relationship.
Every one of us in this world has 24 hours in each day and we must choose our own priorities or they will be chosen for us. If you want to find love, please be willing to make time for it.
If you keep blowing men off because you’re so busy and you’re impossible to schedule a date with, the only men who will tolerate this are the unavailable ones. Relationship-ready men will give up and find someone else, as they should!
And if a man is too busy for you, I want you to give up on him. Seriously!
Also, beware of “relationship replacement” activities.
If you’re busy every minute of every day with your career, kids and friends you DON’T have time for a relationship. If you really want a relationship, make time for one. If you don’t, then decide consciously that it’s not a priority for you at this time in your life and make peace with that.
Either way, you’ll have your power back instead of feeling like you’re at the mercy of your own life.
I help all my clients date in the most efficient way possible so that they save time instead of wasting it on dead end relationships. There are so many wonderful men who would love to meet you, so let’s get you out there. If you’d like my free guide to help you start dating better men, click here.
How much time? Around 30 minutes a day to spend on dating sites/apps and talk to men plus a couple hours on the weekend for dates. This adds up to around 5 hours a week.
If you don’t have 5 hours a week to spend on dating, you DON’T have time for a relationship.
Every one of us in this world has 24 hours in each day and we must choose our own priorities or they will be chosen for us. If you want to find love, please be willing to make time for it.
If you keep blowing men off because you’re so busy and you’re impossible to schedule a date with, the only men who will tolerate this are the unavailable ones. Relationship-ready men will give up and find someone else, as they should!
And if a man is too busy for you, I want you to give up on him. Seriously!
Also, beware of “relationship replacement” activities.
If you’re busy every minute of every day with your career, kids and friends you DON’T have time for a relationship. If you really want a relationship, make time for one. If you don’t, then decide consciously that it’s not a priority for you at this time in your life and make peace with that.
Either way, you’ll have your power back instead of feeling like you’re at the mercy of your own life.
I help all my clients date in the most efficient way possible so that they save time instead of wasting it on dead end relationships. There are so many wonderful men who would love to meet you, so let’s get you out there. If you’d like my free guide to help you start dating better men, click here.
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