SummaryIn this conversation, Thomas Westenholz and Michael Preston explore the complexities of relationships, particularly the notion of keeping one's side of the street clean. They discuss the importance of understanding both individual and shared worlds in a relationship, the impact of emotional neglect, and the necessity of co-regulation. The dialogue emphasises that relationships are not merely transactional but require mutual support and emotional engagement. They highlight the significance of emotions as a compass guiding individuals back to their needs and the importance of navigating emotional responsibility without falling into the trap of managing each other's emotions.Check out my website for couples therapyTakeawaysKeeping your side of the street clean is simplistic.Relationships require understanding both individual and shared worlds.Emotional neglect can have lasting impacts.It's not just about doing your part; it's about connection.Co-regulation is essential for emotional health.Good intentions can still cause harm in relationships.Emotions serve as a compass for our needs.Mutual support is crucial in navigating challenges.Relationships are not about 50-50; it's about collective resources.We need to walk hand in hand in our emotional journeys.Chapters00:00 The Concept of Relationship Dynamics02:49 Understanding Individual and Shared Worlds05:31 The Impact of Emotional Neglect08:32 The Complexity of Keeping Your Side Clean11:20 The Role of Systems in Relationships14:11 Navigating Emotional Responsibility16:58 The Importance of Co-Regulation19:56 Mutual Support in Relationships23:03 The Balance of Emotional Engagement25:55 The Role of Emotions as a Compass28:41 Final Thoughts on Relationship Dynamics

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