Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!

Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:




How elite matchmaking works (and why high-net-worth individuals use it)
Why checklist dating doesn’t work (and what to focus on instead)
The top relationship challenges & how to overcome them

Understanding attachment styles & personality types in dating
How to flirt naturally and build genuine attraction
Dealing with fear of rejection & past relationship baggage

Finding love after divorce or loss

Kate’s personal love story & what she learned along the way


✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match
🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker
04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?
07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types
12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers
16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma
22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”
26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection
30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss
36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned
42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society
45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice

💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!

Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society:
🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com
🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker
🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety

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