Ep. 50: From Hurt to Healing: The Hard Road of Kingdom Forgiveness

10/06/2025 41 min

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Episode Title:The Heavy Gift of Forgiveness: What Jesus Really Meant in Matthew 18In this powerful episode of Untwisting Scripture, Jan and Lisa unpack one of the most difficult but transformational teachings of Jesus—true forgiveness. Centering on Matthew 18:21–35, they explore the parable of the unforgiving servant and what it reveals about God’s heart, justice, mercy, and the weight of our own spiritual debts.With real-life vulnerability and biblical depth, Jan shares a personal story of radical obedience and reconciliation, reminding us that forgiveness is not just a suggestion—it’s a Kingdom mandate that sets both others and us free. If you’ve ever struggled to forgive someone (or yourself), this episode is for you.Why Jesus’ command to forgive “seventy-seven times” isn’t just symbolic—it’s a heart posture.The true cost of unforgiveness, both spiritually and physically.How remembering the debt you’ve been forgiven helps you forgive others.The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation (and why they’re not always the same).How forgiveness positions us to reflect the grace of Christ in a broken world.Matthew 18:21–35 (The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant)Romans 1Luke 15 (The Prodigal Son)“We love that God is gracious to us. We just don’t always want to extend that grace to others.”“You can’t move forward if you’re dragging someone behind you in unforgiveness.”“Forgiveness isn’t writing a pardon—it’s laying down the burden of being judge.”00:00 – Summer banter & season of reflection 03:30 – Why forgiveness is hard but essential 07:00 – Reading Matthew 18:21–35 10:20 – Context: What 10,000 bags of gold really represents 17:00 – Jan’s personal story of forgiveness and reconciliation 26:00 – What true forgiveness looks like in messy relationships 30:00 – Forgiveness vs. justice: How God balances both 36:00 – The Kingdom currency of mercy 39:00 – Prayer & next stepsScripture Reference: Matthew 18:21–35Recommended Movie: The Forge by the Kendrick Brothers - https://www.theforgemovie.comPast episode on Matthew 18 conflict resolution: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/untwisting-scripture/id1753630023?i=1000670516904Episode Summary:What You'll Learn:Scripture Focus:Memorable Quotes:Timestamps:Resources Mentioned:Call to Action:💬 Reflect: Is there someone you need to forgive—or ask forgiveness from? 🙏 Pray: Ask God to help you extend the grace you’ve received. 📩 Share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder of God’s mercy. ⭐ Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, leave a review on your favorite podcast platform.

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