Reflections: Privilege, Context, And The Real Measure Of Coaching

31/12/2025 20 min
Reflections: Privilege, Context, And The Real Measure Of Coaching

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A year can teach more than a stack of textbooks when you commit to showing up every week. We look back on a season built on a simple promise: open a door to world-class coaching minds so any coach, in any town, can learn directly from people who are in the arena. Along the way, we learned new crafts—audio, video, messy garage setups, timezone chaos—and hit 100,000 downloads, a milestone that matters only because it means ideas landed when people needed them.Two conversations shaped our thinking the most. From Tony Brown came a line that won’t leave us: be a rugby person first, a coach second. That idea reframed how we run sessions and lead teams. People follow the person before they follow the plan, so character—listening, honesty, calm, presence—comes first. Once trust and connection exist, detail finally carries weight, and the tactics stick. We unpack how that looks on the grass: greet early, notice energy, invite ownership, then layer in drills, prompts, and reviews that fit the group in front of you.From Ben Darwin and Gain Line Analytics, we dig into the Monopoly Effect: how hidden advantages shape results while winners often misattribute success to pure skill. We explore structural edges like budget, legacy systems, cohesion, and travel that can tilt outcomes long before kickoff. The lesson is humility when advantaged and resilience when constrained. See your context clearly, avoid arrogance or bitterness, and optimize the hand you hold—measure cohesion, build availability, and prioritize repeatable standards over noise.We also share what’s next: sharper systems, higher production quality, broader reach, and a commitment to stay educational rather than entertainment. The goal is the same as day one—turn conversations with elite practitioners into practical tools for coaches, leaders, and teams. If this resonated, subscribe, share with a coach who’d benefit, and leave a review with one insight you’re taking into the new year. Your feedback shapes what we build next.Send us a textIf you can SUBSCRIBE, RATE, and SHARE the show and series, you would be doing your bit to grow this show. Very appreciated. BenTo subscribe to the newsletter or to get a copy of the book, jump onto:www.coachingculture.com.au Support the showShare this show with your mates, rugby, coaches, leaders! Dont be shy.