When you go no contact with an avoidant ex, it might look like they don’t care — but that’s not what’s really happening beneath the surface.
In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the true stages of no contact for an avoidant ex — what they feel, how they process silence, and why their calmness often ends with sudden panic or regret.
Avoidant exes don’t handle emotional loss the way secure people do. At first, they feel relief — convinced that distance equals peace. But that “peace” eventually cracks. What follows is a slow unraveling that ends in what Lee calls punctuated equilibrium — a sudden emotional rupture after weeks or months of suppression.
You’ll discover:


Why avoidants appear cold right after the breakup


The point when silence starts working on them internally


Why they often resurface after long gaps of quiet


How no contact reveals their attachment fears and triggers realization


This isn’t about manipulation — it’s about understanding how an avoidant’s emotional system reacts to loss.
If you’ve wondered whether your ex still thinks about you, this episode will help you see the patterns behind their silence — and the moment it finally breaks.
🎧 Listen now and learn the psychological stages your avoidant ex goes through during no contact.
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