Struggling to balance personal independence and dependence? You're not alone. Matt and Dr. David Hall are exploring the tensions that exist between these two extremes, their impact on our spiritual connection, and how our culture and the church often swing between them. This dynamic tension isn't just a linear journey, but rather a constant negotiation and reshaping of our lives. We'll take a leaves out of the work of the psychiartist, Milton Erickson,  and reflect on the moment when you realize that you can no longer become an Olympic swimmer (even if you were not trying to in the first place) We can see how the tensions of dependence and independence manifest in different stages of life.Parenting is a tightrope act, walking the fine line between rebellious teenage independence and parental anxiety. We discuss how allowing a teenage brain - which is still developing until the mid-to-late 20s - to make certain decisions can have far-reaching implications. This struggle between dependence and independence within families can sometimes lead to individuals being valued for what they can do, rather than who they truly are. We'll also shed light on the concept of fidelity and its influence on identity and role confusion.Join us as we delve into these complex issues and offer practical guidance for personal growth and spiritual maturation. Together, let's navigate the intricate path of dependence and independence in our personal lives and church experience.Show Notes:Anthony Bradley Episode - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-churches-should-respond-to-the-boy-crisis/id1560890129?i=1000599515383

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