Listen "#107 Triggers Aren’t Setbacks — They’re Invitations to Heal"
Episode Synopsis
Triggers Aren’t Setbacks — They’re Invitations to HealIn this powerful episode, we dive deep into what happens when a betrayed spouse is triggered — especially when the trigger seems irrational or unrelated to the present moment. If you're the partner who has caused the betrayal, it can be confusing and overwhelming to understand these reactions. But how you respond in those moments matters more than you might realize.We’ll explore why logical explanations and defensiveness don’t help, and how empathy, presence, and emotional attunement can become powerful tools for healing.Expect honest insights, relatable examples, and a trauma-informed lens on how to stay connected, even through the hardest moments.What a “trigger” really is and how it affects the brain and bodyWhy a betrayed partner’s reaction might feel out of proportion — and why it isn’tHow common behaviors (like defensiveness or shame) unintentionally worsen the painWhat to say (and not say) when your partner is triggeredWhy presence and empathy create the safety needed for true healingReal-life storytelling moments that illustrate what empathy looks like in actionThank you for tuning in!We’re here to support couples healing from infidelity and betrayal, offering encouragement, practical skills, and expertise each week. As certified relational recovery coaches, we are passionate about guiding you toward hope, empathy, and lasting healing.Stay connected with us and access all the resources we offer—coaching sessions, groups, and more—by visiting this link.Your Hosts:Hali RoderickCertified Relational Recovery CoachTICC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-C, Brainspotting PractitionerRead Hali’s BioStephanie HambyCertified Relational Recovery CoachMCLC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-CRead Stephanie’s BioWe look forward to journeying with you!🧠 In This Episode, You'll Learn:
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