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Episode Synopsis
A chat about dating. In part two of our series on the 4B movement, Elle and Natalie take a read on what is happening in dating culture, listening to a diverse cross-section of women to try to understand why a growing number of women are saying no to dating.
EPISODE LINKS
Influence of Sex and the City | Emily the Recruiter
Hook-Up Culture | Cunty Chanel
Transactional Dating | Pure Michigangster
Backlash to Women’s Standards | Shawnda
Being Bitter vs Being Aware | Professional Sassatron
Internet Boyfriend | Joshua Summerfield
Self-Love Journey | Caitlin Checker
Women Benefit Men | Fashionably Divorced
Burning the Haystack | Crazylocks918
Burned Haystack Method | Jennie Young
Rising Standards | Jennifer Moxley
Bumble Ad Campaign | Daily Mail
RESOURCES
Are We Dating the Same Guy? | App
Tea for Women | App
FROM THE COMMONS
FiLiA is the largest international women’s rights conference in the world. They know that building a global sisterhood is essential for the dismantling of patriarchy. Learn more and buy your tickets for the October 10-12, 2025 conference in England at:
https://www.filia.org.uk
CONTACT
Website: www.chatinthecommons.com
Instagram: @chatinthecommons
X: @ChatInCommons
Email: https://www.chatinthecommons.com/contact
CREDITS
Hosted by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Produced by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Edited by Elle Kamihira
Audio Engineering by Jason Sheesley at Abridged Audio
Cover Art by Reda Tomingas
Music by Moushumi
EPISODE LINKS
Influence of Sex and the City | Emily the Recruiter
Hook-Up Culture | Cunty Chanel
Transactional Dating | Pure Michigangster
Backlash to Women’s Standards | Shawnda
Being Bitter vs Being Aware | Professional Sassatron
Internet Boyfriend | Joshua Summerfield
Self-Love Journey | Caitlin Checker
Women Benefit Men | Fashionably Divorced
Burning the Haystack | Crazylocks918
Burned Haystack Method | Jennie Young
Rising Standards | Jennifer Moxley
Bumble Ad Campaign | Daily Mail
RESOURCES
Are We Dating the Same Guy? | App
Tea for Women | App
FROM THE COMMONS
FiLiA is the largest international women’s rights conference in the world. They know that building a global sisterhood is essential for the dismantling of patriarchy. Learn more and buy your tickets for the October 10-12, 2025 conference in England at:
https://www.filia.org.uk
CONTACT
Website: www.chatinthecommons.com
Instagram: @chatinthecommons
X: @ChatInCommons
Email: https://www.chatinthecommons.com/contact
CREDITS
Hosted by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Produced by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Edited by Elle Kamihira
Audio Engineering by Jason Sheesley at Abridged Audio
Cover Art by Reda Tomingas
Music by Moushumi
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