She says she’s done, movers booked, divorce lawyer on speed-dial. Do you level up and reclaim respect—or let her go and start over? John and Nicole break down the brutal path from blindsided husband to high-value man, debating whether fighting for a dying marriage is strength or desperation.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00  Cold open: “Even though she’s leaving you…”—why terms matter2:30  Shock phase: blindsided men & early warning signs they missed4:30  Kids, housework, careers—the hidden resentment load10:00  Silent checkout: subtle clues she’s already halfway gone16:30  Respect erosion & masculine drift—how it starts, how to stop it22:30  Workplace validation and the “new guy” threat25:30  Bedroom shutdown: sex declines and what it really signals28:40  Cheating suspicions vs facts—panic or pattern?33:15  Level-up blueprint: fitness, finance, frame, social proof40:25  Negotiating new terms: boundaries, leadership, non-negotiables49:30  Ultimatums, timing, and knowing when to walk away59:00  Rapid-fire takeaways & next-episode teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site – https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram – https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

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