Beyond Self-Help: Real Spiritual Formation with Dr. Kyle Strobel

15/09/2025 47 min
Beyond Self-Help: Real Spiritual Formation with Dr. Kyle Strobel

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Episode Synopsis

Host Steve Cuss and Dr. Kyle Strobel disrupt self-help versions of spirituality and call us back to genuine encounters with Christ. Together we explore how hidden dynamics like assumptions, reactivity, and self-reliance often sabotage spiritual formation—and why cultivating watchfulness in prayer and scripture is the antidote. Drawing from Colossians 4:2, early evangelical practices, and personal stories, Dr. Strobel shows how honesty about our emotions in real time opens the door to true transformation. We also name the dangers of “guruism,” guilt-driven church culture, and unrealistic expectations, pointing instead to authentic growth rooted in humility, friendship, and God’s presence in the ordinary.

Episode Resources:



Read Dr. Strobel’s Formation Substack




Read Dr. Strobel’s book The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb: Searching for Jesus’ Path of Power in a Church that Has Abandoned It




Read Dr. Strobel’s book Where Prayer Becomes Real: How Honesty with God Transforms Your Soul




John Coe’s free online Bible courses




An introduction to the life and writings of John Cassian (video)




Read Colossians 4:2




Read Galatians 3




Read Colossians 2




Read Psalm 73




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