📌 Episode Description:What do you do when life knocks the wind out of you—through trauma, grief, a painful memory, or something you never saw coming? In this episode, we explore four simple but powerful questions to help you start processing pain and walking toward healing. These trauma-informed tools can help bring clarity when your mind feels scattered. Whether you’ve experienced a recent crisis or an old wound keeps resurfacing, this episode offers a gentle, practical guide to start making sense of the hurt—and hearing what God may want you to know in the midst of it.🎧 Listen in and learn:How trauma affects memory and emotional processing4 healing questions to guide yourself (or someone else) through painWhy asking “Why?” keeps us stuck—and the better question to askA powerful reminder of God’s goodness, even in suffering⏱️ Timestamps:01:03 – Episode intro: When life comes out of nowhere01:40 – What inspired this episode02:12 – Trauma, memory, and why our brains feel scattered03:01 – Question #1: What happened?03:21 – Question #2: How did you feel?04:44 – Question #3: What was the hardest part for you?05:41 – Why “why” questions can keep us stuck06:12 – Bonus Question: God, what do You want me to know about this?07:01 – A note on spiritual healing and God’s character08:21 – Final encouragement and how to use these questions in real life🧠 Key TakeawaysTrauma scatters the brain. Simple, clear questions help organize and name what happened.Naming emotions matters. You can’t heal what you don’t name.Getting to the hardest part reveals deeper fears—like abandonment, shame, or helplessness.“Why?” isn’t always helpful. Asking God, “What do You want me to know?” invites healing insight.God is not the source of our pain, but He is always present and able to heal it.Next Episode: We're unpacking myths of forgiveness and giving you a simple framework to finally let it go!DISCLAIMERI am a licensed professional counselor, however this podcast (and the info shared on my blogs and social media) is not therapy. It is for informational purposes only; this is not a professional therapy relationship; and it is not personal advice to your specific situation. If you wonder whether professional counseling may be helpful for you in this season of life, check out this article that outlines when you might need to seek the help of a professional counselor and how to find a good one: https://shelleyspence.com/how-to-find-a-christian-counselorLINKSTrauma Healing Institute:https://www.traumahealingbasics.org/three-questionsHow to Find a Christian Counselor:https://shelleyspence.com/how-to-find-a-christian-counselorSign up for my Inner Circle newsletter:Https://shelleyspence.comI’m cheering you on as you break free from what’s holding you back and keeping you stuck!

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