12 - Three Uncomfy Truths About Why We Judge and How to Stop Being a Judgey Mcjudgerson

01/12/2020 25 min
12 - Three Uncomfy Truths About Why We Judge and How to Stop Being a Judgey Mcjudgerson

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If Judgey McJudgerson and Judge Judy had a baby, that would have been me. The old me was constantly criticizing others but on this journey, I have found that my judgment was actually a reflection of myself. I still have a long way to go, but I don’t find myself judging others nearly as often as before. But when I do, I can catch myself and figure out why I am being judgmental. This is something we all deal with. For some, this is a huge problem and for others it is something we’re already working on. No matter where you are in your journey, today’s episode serves as a reminder and a guide to turn your judgments back on yourself. It definitely gets uncomfortable because for many of us, this means we have to face parts of ourselves we don’t like. But you are a work in progress on your journey to being you. To join Jill's private feed click here: https://beyou.supercast.tech ---------- The Be You Podcast by coach and spirituality and wellness enthusiast Jill Herman is all about women helping women to unbecome everything they thought they had to be and unapologetically embracing their trust self. Jill covers topics like healing, parenting, self love, women helping women, spirituality and much more.    Through the Be You podcast and her work with the Be You Collective, Jill makes the challenging process of healing approachable, especially when it comes to parenting and self love. She draws on her personal parenting experiences, her own healing journey, and wisdom from coaches and thought leaders like Glennon Doyle, Lisa Bilyeu, Luke Storey, Christine Hasler, and more.    Whether you’re looking for parenting advice, a community of women helping women, or you’re on your own healing journey, the Be You Podcast is for you.   Instagram:  @jillhermanbeyou  @beyoupodcast_  ---------- Links and Resources: Be You Home Page Jill Herman on Instagram Be You Collective on Facebook Don’t forget to download your free ebook to help you discover how to live a life of POWER, FREEDOM, and JOY! Be You and Break Free From the Opinions of Others by Jill Herman Judgment Detox by Gabrielle Bernstein ---------- Glennon Doyle on being yourself: “Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world.” - Glennon Doyle   Glennon Doyle on women helping women: “People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don’t need help.” - Glennon Doyle   Glennon Doyle on healing: “What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?” - Glennon Doyle   Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: “Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally.” - Lisa Bilyeu   Lisa Bilyeu on healing: “If you’re still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.” - Lisa Bileyu   Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women: “Choose your life’s board members like you’re building a Fortune 500 company.” - Lisa Bilyeu   Tucker Max on being yourself: “If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they're bad people.” - Tucker Max   Tucker Max on healing: “Pretending to be something you aren't because you're trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites and shitheads is not the way to be happy. Living the life you want to live is.” - Tucker Max   Tucker Max on healing: “Men will treat you the way you let them. You get what you demand from people.” - Tucker Max   Luke Storey on healing: “Within self honesty and self awareness is a modicum of humility and that's all you really need to affect change." - Luke Storey   Luke Storey on healing: “The foundation to your healing is to not be committed to your lies.” - Luke Storey   Christine Hasler on healing: “Know that the qualities you admire in others are the qualities you need to recognize and nurture inside yourself.” - Christine Hasler   Christine Hasler on parenting: “People come in and out of our lives to share them with us, contribute, support us, and teach us, but they never complete us.” - Christine Hasler Christine Hasler on healing: “It is in the most undesirable of external circumstances that we discover internal qualities like courage, faith, compassion, inspiration, acceptance, and love.” - Christine Hasler