We explore the concept of "African Trauma Syndrome" – the unique psychological and emotional challenges experienced by children across African cultures shaped by cultural expectations and social norms. Ayo, a young Gen Z voice, joins the conversation to share authentic perspectives on how certain parenting practices impact trust and emotional wellbeing.• Common scenarios like the "put it on my head" directive that creates confusion when taken literally by children• Parentification – where older siblings bear disproportionate responsibility for household duties and younger siblings• How promises of "no punishment for honesty" followed by scolding creates lasting trust issues• Academic expectations that focus on shortcomings rather than celebrating achievements• Cultural practices like finding stew inside ice cream containers creating expectations that things aren't what they seem• Boundaries with strangers and the pressure to engage with unknown adults due to cultural respect norms• The importance of acknowledging children's efforts before providing constructive feedback• Creating balance between cultural traditions and emotional wellbeingIf you're struggling with any issues discussed in this episode, please visit www.asebconsultancy.com where you can book a free 15-minute consultation with one of our counselors. Please like, share, and subscribe to help drive visibility to this platform.Send us a textSupport the showFacebook : https://www.facebook.com/abiessoniaInstagram : https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm8aAtpN2BN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

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