i do unfortunately have a story about my own father.  i did not grow up with my father. my mother passed away when i was around 8 or so. so i grew up until the age of 19 not knowing my father. i was able to meet him when i was 19. and didnt have much of a connection with him after that. i have not seen him since then. i dont really want to tell anyone this story because i think i understand how the media works, with the stalking.  but when i met my father, no one thought of him as any thing other than a hispanic man.  people liked my father but he is clearly not a blonde hair blue eye person.  he looks completely hispanic.  and that would mean his children , like myself, and my sisters, our mothers were caucasian. that would mean we are caucasian and hispanic.   but when i met my father when i was 19,  he said something to me that seemed like an insult.   and he later exposed himself as being a fairly bad person. but he told me. on the day that i met him that in his family line there may be someone with african heritage way way way way back in the day. but he wasnt sure.   he had a wider nose  but had surgery to fix the nose.    after looking at pictures of his parents and grandparents, i do not see the african descent.   but because he has a wide nose, and because he saw that i have a wide nose, in his head the only thing he knows to say is maybe way back in the day there was someone in his family with african ancestry.   no one ever said there was african ancestry on my fathers side in my family , no one ever considered me anything other than hispanic.    then when i met my father at 19 he said  way back in the day there may have been someone in his family line with african ancestry.    he doesnt look african and people dont treat him as if he is african american.    he once told me he was beaten up and robbed by african americans.       i face the same kind of hostility.   

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