Ever wondered why “I want sex” often really means “I want to feel close”? We open up about the different meanings men and women attach to intimacy and how those hidden needs—safety, reassurance, being desired, and presence—shape desire more than timing or technique ever could. Starting with our simple P.I.E. check‑in (physical, intellectual, emotional), we show how everyday connection becomes the quiet foreplay that makes intimacy feel natural instead of pressured.We talk honestly about mismatched libido, rejection spirals, and duty sex that drains energy. For him, sex can be a deep signal of acceptance and belonging, not just a physical release. For her, desire often grows from safety, emotional attunement, and a pathway out of the mental load and back into the body. You’ll hear practical ways to bridge that gap: appreciation that’s specific and genuine, non‑sexual touch that builds trust, and language that invites closeness—“I want to feel closer to you”—instead of demands. We also explore curiosity around kinks and preferences, asking why certain dynamics matter so partners can meet each other with empathy and clear boundaries.If resentment, busyness, or past hurt are dulling your spark, these tools help you rebuild intimacy as a shared practice. Think week‑long foreplay, slower pacing, consent that’s enthusiastic, and post‑intimacy care that leaves you both resourced. By talking about what sex truly provides, couples can move from misunderstanding to a kinder, more connected sexual culture at home.If you’re ready to move from disconnect to deeper intimacy, apply for our one‑day Couples Connection retreat in Agnes Water—limited spots. Subscribe, share this with a partner, and leave a review with your biggest insight so we can keep creating what helps most.Thankyou for listening, if you liked it, please remember to subscribe.Join our Private "Thriving relationships - Deepening connection to self and others" community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1107209283451758/Website: https://michaelandamy.com.au/Join our free 7 day relationship challenge: https://michaelandamy.com.au/free-relationship-challengeIf you would like to book in a private discovery call with us, here is the link: https://michaelandamy.com.au/call

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