19. Yes, There Are Other People Who Have Those Feelings Too!

31/10/2023 57 min

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Episode Synopsis

The power of connection with other siblings is very real!  Even if you're just at work in the break room, you never know who will benefit from hearing you share your story.  Know that there are lots of us special needs siblings out there who feel your pain, sorrow, happiness, and joy.  There's a lot out there to feel, and there's a lot to be shared.  Hear Danica's story in episode 19.
In this episode we talk about:

How Charlene and Danica got connected through Eddie’s podcast! (Scroll down for a link to his show)
About Danica’s family and brother with autism
Connecting with other siblings at different stages of life and birth order
Being stared at by other people when we talk about sibling topics
Watching younger kids who are siblings and remembering the feelings
Hidden abilities that we have as siblings that only kick in due to our siblings with disabilities
Danica’s career trajectory - and figuring out separation 
The revolving door of our involvement in our sibling’s lives for as much as we do or don’t want to be involved
Being 1 of 2 verses being 1 of more than 2 siblings
Conservatorship, when it kicks in and how it is intertwined with our daily lives
Moving away from our core family
Danica’s experience with her brother moving into his group home
About Danica’s parents starting and running their own group home 
All sorts of confusing and complicated feelings about our sibling’s housing situations 
Everything is a trade off and wanting some sort of normalcy 
Feelings towards our typical siblings vs out siblings with disabilities 
Different experiences we have due to birth order and meeting other oldest special needs siblings
Danica’s encouragement to fellow siblings

Links:

Doing The Best We Can with Eddie Kaufholz: https://eddiekaufholz.com/
The episode that Charlene got to be on with Eddie: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/doing-the-best-we-can/episodes/Issue-XXX---A-Mind-at-Work-w-Charlene-e23edao/a-a9p85fb
Read the issue of the newsletter The Special Needs Sibling Podcast was featured on: https://eddiekaufholz.com/archive/issue-xxx-a-mind-at-work

More Info:

Check out the blog and contact Charlene here: https://thespecialneedssiblingpodcast.com/
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Support the podcast on Ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/thespecialneedssiblingpodcast

Music by:

AlexGrohl from Pixabay
QubeSounds from Pixabay