The Level Up Guys explore mental, emotional, and physical health to help you improve your quality of life and level up. In this episode of The Level Up Guys podcast, hosts Billy and Jarrett continue their discussion about attachment styles — how they form in childhood and how they shape our adult relationships.Jarrett breaks down the four main attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized — explaining how each develops and the ways they influence communication, trust, and connection. The guys dig into how early parent-child dynamics carry into romantic relationships, why certain pairings (like anxious and avoidant) can feel like emotional tug-of-war, and what it really takes to build security with a partner.Billy adds his personal reflections and curiosity as they unpack how awareness, language, and discomfort tolerance can help anyone move toward a healthier, more securely attached relationship. They also touch on generational differences, the role of self-regulation, and how even therapists have to “do the work.”If you’ve ever wondered why you react the way you do in relationships—or why your partner does—this episode gives you the insight and tools to start connecting with more confidence and calm.The Level Up Guys podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Please consult a qualified professional for medical advice, and remember to do your own research.ResourcesWe love sharing resources and invite you all to level up with us. Below, you’ll find a curated list of standout reads and tools we genuinely believe are worth your time (and money). If you use the links, you’ll also be supporting the Level Up Guys podcast. Thanks for being part of the journey.Tony Robbins – Awaken the Giant WithinExplores how language shapes our emotions, energy, and actions. A must-read for understanding personal transformation through mindset shifts.👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4dn8zPLLisa Feldman Barrett – How Emotions Are MadeBreaks down the science of emotions—how they’re constructed, triggered, and felt. Perfect if you’re curious about the brain-body connection behind what we feel.👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3YSnWK2Brené Brown – Daring GreatlyA deep dive into vulnerability, shame, guilt, and courage. Explores how embracing discomfort can lead to stronger relationships and greater personal power.👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3GUEkUiGlennon Doyle – UntamedEncourages radical self-discovery and authenticity. Her take on jealousy as “admiration holding its breath” hits hard—and this book expands on that beautifully.👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/45jTUCTBecky Kennedy – Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to BeGrounded in emotional intelligence, this one’s not just for parents—it’s a masterclass in guilt, growth, and how to show up better for others (and yourself).👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4dk66p4Dr. Ethan Kross – Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness ItUnpacks the power of self-talk and how to create distance from unhelpful inner narratives. A practical guide to turning mental noise into clarity.👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3Flf9cPConnect With UsListen on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/6BJNUL1tZgCH9L0tRNOtQwListen on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/by/podcast/the-level-up-guys/id1788795397Listen on Amazon https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4afb7cd0-cc40-44a6-a6ba-d0021dfcb10b/the-level-up-guysGet to know Jarrett : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/jarrett-clayman-framingham-ma/1328337We’d love to hear from you! Connect with us at [email protected]. Let’s level up together!CreditsSpecial thanks to the amazing people behind the scenes that make the Level Up Guys podcast possible:Producer, Moe Murillo – for steering the ship forward, keeping everything on schedule.Connect with Moe here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mauricio-murillo-capm-csmMusic provided by Remix Live (license free)Artwork by Billy Batten and Moe.

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