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This week we're going to be discussing attachment. Often times, it's not the desire for something that causes mental discomfort but our attachment to these ideas that things should come to us in certain ways. So, often times we will want something so badly and we’ll think that we're never going to get it because we don't see it coming in the certain way that we have in our heads, but when we release attachment, when we realize that we are whole and complete and that we have everything we need, the things that we want tend to come to us a lot easier, cuz we're not struggling, we're not trying to force it into the shape that we think it should be, we're not trying to mold it, we're allowing things to Flow To Us in whatever way is easiest. We're allowing the universe to operate, sending things through the path of least resistance. If you are super attached to something, you're resistant to it coming to you in the easiest way possible, cuz you have in your head a certain other way but you don't know everything that's going on you don't know all the moving parts of the universe. So when you let go, you start noticing other things, you’ll start meeting other people, your mindset will shift, and maybe you'll speak about it in a different way, and it'll land on someone’s ears in such a way that they tell you something very valuable, or they direct you in a certain way. Whereas if you're coming from a place of super attachment, you're coming from a vibration of desperation and “I really, really want it” meaning “I really, really don't have it.” So, the best way to detach is to realize that you're whole and complete, and surrender. Surrender your insatiable need for this thing, whatever it is. Whether it be a certain job, a certain person, a certain lifestyle. When you find your joy and love and gratitude for everything that you have, you naturally attract better, because that's the frequency you’re vibrating at. So, let's talk about how to detach. Write a gratitude list, being grateful for everything that you have, and even be grateful for whatever it is that you want but don't direct it, just say “I'm so happy and grateful that now that this thing is in my life, now that I have this thing” and really feel into it, but don't try and direct how it comes to you, don't say “and it's going to like look like this.” Cuz it's really down to the feeling of how it feels, because sometimes we think we want something, but what we actually want is completely different. We want the feelings that we think these things are going to provide us, but if we find those feelings for ourselves before, then they come to us, without the struggle, without the internal discord. If you want more love in your life, be that love. If you want more fun in your life, play more. If you want more abundance in your life, be more abundant in the way that you interact with the world. Don't speak things over yourself like “I'm so broke” or “money leaves me quickly” or saying things like “money doesn't matter” or “money is evil.” Money is a tool, and how you use it matters, so release your attachment to it and realize that it comes to you easily when you don't struggle. If you are saying that you're struggling financially, you are. Because our brains are creative, and they're constantly looking for different ways, but if you're in that vibration in a struggle, you're probably having great ideas sometimes that you shut down immediately cuz you feel like “this isn’t possible” but if you find a good feeling idea, and you follow it down, and you allow yourself, you might find that it is exactly what you needed.  And when we're not loving on ourselves, we find attachment to other people, because we're looking for that

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