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Listen "EP 42 - From Victim to Victor"
Episode Synopsis
#victimtovictor #comealive #selflove #gratitude
In this episode, you will learn the difference between Victim and Victor’s mentalities.
3 learnings helped me move out of the victim mentality.
1. I learned to own my life - I started accepting responsibility for my past, present, and future. I took my power back by taking responsibility for my life. We have to learn to look past other people’s judgments, ideas, and beliefs of our version of life to actually start living the life we want. So, take full responsibility for your life and become independent emotionally.
2. Use your power - if you really want it, you must generate the power from within to achieve it. The power of action, the power of choice, and the power to push forward. Start taking action towards your growth by creating new habits that serve you. Start making choices to shift your mentality and beliefs from within with positive self-talk and positive affirmations daily. And start making the effort to progress in the direction you wish by forgiving others and yourself.
Be in a state of gratitude for all the blessings you have.
3. Believe in Yourself - this can be achieved by converting fear to faith, believing that the universe is supporting you, and start fostering confidence by recognizing your strengths and being kind to yourself. View all challenges as growth opportunities rather than failures. Believe in and trust the process of life.
In conclusion, free yourself from being controlled by what other people think about you. Start to prioritize how you feel about yourself, and what you want in life.
So, convert any victim mentality you hold in any area of your life to one of a Victor, because you are powerful to do so.
To find out more about Meher: Website:
www.mehermirchandani.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meher_mirch...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comealivewi...
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mehermirchandani
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comealivewit...
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To book Meher for a talk for your company email her on:
[email protected]
You can also watch this podcast by searching for Meher Mirchandani on YouTube.
In this episode, you will learn the difference between Victim and Victor’s mentalities.
3 learnings helped me move out of the victim mentality.
1. I learned to own my life - I started accepting responsibility for my past, present, and future. I took my power back by taking responsibility for my life. We have to learn to look past other people’s judgments, ideas, and beliefs of our version of life to actually start living the life we want. So, take full responsibility for your life and become independent emotionally.
2. Use your power - if you really want it, you must generate the power from within to achieve it. The power of action, the power of choice, and the power to push forward. Start taking action towards your growth by creating new habits that serve you. Start making choices to shift your mentality and beliefs from within with positive self-talk and positive affirmations daily. And start making the effort to progress in the direction you wish by forgiving others and yourself.
Be in a state of gratitude for all the blessings you have.
3. Believe in Yourself - this can be achieved by converting fear to faith, believing that the universe is supporting you, and start fostering confidence by recognizing your strengths and being kind to yourself. View all challenges as growth opportunities rather than failures. Believe in and trust the process of life.
In conclusion, free yourself from being controlled by what other people think about you. Start to prioritize how you feel about yourself, and what you want in life.
So, convert any victim mentality you hold in any area of your life to one of a Victor, because you are powerful to do so.
To find out more about Meher: Website:
www.mehermirchandani.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meher_mirch...
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comealivewi...
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mehermirchandani
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comealivewit...
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To book Meher for a talk for your company email her on:
[email protected]
You can also watch this podcast by searching for Meher Mirchandani on YouTube.
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