The Attunement Podcast #17 Feeling the Hurt, Ending Self-Sacrifice, and Quitting the Dream

04/07/2025 57 min

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Samek learns to say “ouch” instead of saving others and rebels less against his own wants. Harry shares about quitting summer camp, letting go of a dream identity, and the surreal transformation that followed. Together they explore the pain of self-sacrifice, the clarity in expressing hurt, and the quiet relief of surrendering to what’s real.Timestamps00:00 – Intro: crushes, quitting jobs, and this week’s experiment00:52 – Saying ouch and letting love in21:17 – Harry leaves summer camp and lets a dream identity die34:23 – Samek quits a “perfect” job that wasn’t his life51:03 – Sharing openly with a crush and an old flame

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