Ep 10: Childfree by Choice, Child-Friendly by Passion with Brenda Yuen

10/04/2023 58 min Episodio 10

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Episode Synopsis

The decision to have kids or not can be one of the most pivotal choices we make in life. And if you do have kids, ensuring they grow up healthy and happy is something all parents want. But how to do it best? This week, we're chatting with Brenda Yuen as she takes us on her personal journey to choosing a childfree life. And yet, as an early years educator, Brenda's work life is full of children. Drawing on over a decade of experience, Brenda shares her passion for helping children learn and flourish.
We cover a lot this episode! In the first half, on not having kids:

What would you regret if you did have kids?
What makes "a family"?
Perspectives through the LBGTQ+ lens
Separating desire vs decision to have kids
Journaling and online communities to help with the decision

In the second half, on early years education (29:49):

Helping parents without being a parent
Building confidence through competence
Is schooling for 1-5 year olds just babysitting?
Social-emotional learning: what, why, and how
Role of parents during playdates
Co-regulating emotions with your child during meltdowns
Holding space for feelings, not fixing them

Links:

Vox article by Ann Davidman, parenthood clarity mentor
Online childfree community
Brenda's Twitter: missbrendahere
Brenda's LinkedIn: brendayuen

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