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Episode Synopsis
Would you rather have someone speak with you or at you? Do you know the difference? Is it really all that important? Maybe you're thinking of someone now who continually speaks at you, probably doesn't feel all that good? In episode number two, Jason and Dennis tackle this very question, With or At. Thanks for joining us, for commenting, for subscribing and inviting others to do the same.
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Episode Notes. Is there anything you missed or you wanted something for your notes. Here is a simple outline of what we discussed.
When you Speak AT people…
People are a means to an end
Words are just words
You waste the moments that you have them
You take no time to learn someone's story
You have an MBA in talking Down
You're a Jedi at one upping
You make people guess what you're thinking
Clarity is not a part of your communication
You Assume the worst and you let your emotions run rampant and cause damage.
When you Speak WITH people, you…
Genuinely Care for People
Really understand how powerful words are
Realize moments with people are Precious
You're a student of People
You talk UP--not Down,
You're a Master Question Asker
You actually LISTEN more than you Speak
Never one UP but you LIFT up
You don't force a connection
You Communicate Continually
Your Emotions are Tamed so they don't cause GREAT damage.
In God we trust