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This episode explores why affairs happen even among people who genuinely value their relationships and never imagined crossing that line. The hosts break down the emotional, psychological, and relational dynamics that make secrecy, novelty, and unmet needs so compelling. They also examine how betrayal impacts identity, trust, and a couple’s shared narrative — and what healing realistically requires.
MAIN TALKING POINTS
Secrecy & allure
Emotional rupture
Unmet needs
Fantasy vs. reality
Identity confusion
Rebuilding trust
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Free through the end of the year! Get access to courses and live coaching with the hosts. CLICK HERE TO JOIN
This episode explores why affairs happen even among people who genuinely value their relationships and never imagined crossing that line. The hosts break down the emotional, psychological, and relational dynamics that make secrecy, novelty, and unmet needs so compelling. They also examine how betrayal impacts identity, trust, and a couple’s shared narrative — and what healing realistically requires.
MAIN TALKING POINTS
Secrecy & allure
Emotional rupture
Unmet needs
Fantasy vs. reality
Identity confusion
Rebuilding trust
Give Me Discounts!
Cozy Earth - Black Friday has come early! Right now, you can stack my code “IDO” on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings. These deals won’t last, so start your holiday shopping today!
Beducate - Use code relationship69 for 65% off the annual pass.
Skylight - Use code “IDO” for $30 off your 15 inch calendar.
Function - 160+ Lab Tests for $365.
Amazfit - Use Code “IDO” to get 10% off
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren
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