Listen "From Things to Healing - When Self-Investment Saves Relationships"
Episode Synopsis
Theresa and Walker explore their evolving relationship with material possessions and personal growth in this heartfelt episode of My Inner Knowing. Walker shares the powerful story of how investing in emotional maturity literally saved his relationship with his daughter after they didn't speak for nearly two years. Theresa reveals her journey from attaching identity to possessions as a single mother to finding freedom through non-attachment. Together, they discuss how retreats, therapy, and personal development create more lasting value than material goods, while acknowledging that our relationship with "things" remains complex throughout life. Discover practical, accessible ways to invest in yourself regardless of your financial situation.Episode Highlights[00:00] IntroductionThe mission behind My Inner Knowing: empowering you to trust your inner compass.[01:28] Material Goods vs. Self-InvestmentWalker shares how he prioritized Facebook ads over personal development—and what changed.[06:00] The Value ShiftPrioritizing retreats, education, and emotional health over possessions.[07:00] Childhood ScarcityTheresa reflects on how growing up with less shaped her attachment to things.[11:28] The Dream Home LessonLosing a dream home opportunity created a powerful shift in self-value.[16:00] Redefining SafetySafety for children isn't about fancy things—it's emotional security.[20:00] Letting GoStories of stained carpets and lost jewelry teaching non-attachment.[28:00] Growth Through ExperienceWhy personal growth experiences bring greater returns than objects.[31:00] Emotional AttachmentsWalker's raw story about feeling hurt when meaningful objects were carelessly handled.[34:30] Beyond the SurfaceHow shame, worthiness, and memories intertwine with possessions.[39:00] Consumer Culture Reality CheckAn eye-opening mall experience revealing the true value of purchases.[44:00] Accessible GrowthAffordable ways to invest in healing and personal development.[47:30] Relationships: The Greatest ROIHow emotional maturity saved Walker's relationship with his daughter.Key Takeaways- Shifting resources toward emotional, mental, and relational health brings lasting rewards- Self-worth is not reflected in what you own- Experiences that challenge you lead to real transformation- Healing relationships starts with healing yourselfEpisode Links & ResourcesJoin us in the 10 Essential Skills to Build Stronger and Healthier Relationships courseWatch the episode on YouTubeMy Inner Knowing Full episode linkMy Inner Knowing websiteMy Inner Knowing FacebookMy Inner Knowing InstagramMy Inner Knowing LinkedIn
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