In this episode, I sit down with my first-ever life coach, Maggie Reyes, a feminist marriage coach and the author of The Questions for Couples Journal. We dive deep into the social conditioning that shapes women’s lives—how we are raised to be “good” by constantly serving others, often at the expense of our own desires and well-being.Maggie shares her insights on navigating the discomfort of wanting more for yourself, creating safety in self-discovery, and finding balance in relationships without losing yourself. We also explore how small shifts in perspective can lead to big changes in how you experience your life.If you've ever felt stuck in over-functioning, struggling to put yourself on your own priority list, this conversation is for you.Connect with Maggie:🔹 Listen to The Marriage Life Coach Podcast🔹 Visit MaggieReyes.comDon't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps more people find these transformative conversations. [00:00 - 02:30] | IntroductionWelcome to the podcast!Introduction of special guest Maggie Reyes, a feminist marriage coach and author of The Questions for Couples Journal.Amanda shares that Maggie was her first life coach and how her marketing spoke directly to her experience as a Type A woman married to a Type B man.Maggie expresses her excitement to be on the show.[02:31 - 07:45] | The Journey of Coaching & Walking Each Other HomeMaggie and Amanda reminisce about their coaching journey together.Discussion of the Ram Dass quote: “We’re all walking each other home.”How coaching is about support rather than hierarchy.The power of having someone truly on your side.[07:46 - 13:30] | The Role of Safety in Coaching & FeminismThe importance of safety in transformation.How therapy provides safety (Stephen Porges’ quote: “Safety is the treatment”), and how in coaching, presence is the most powerful tool.The misconception that feminism is about hating men—it’s actually about equality.How patriarchal structures affect both men and women.[13:31 - 19:15] | The ‘Good Girl’ Narrative & Performative OvergivingWomen are raised to be performative in their goodness—doing what is considered "right" rather than what is right for them.The societal pressure to put others first and suppress personal desires.The idea of being selfish when prioritizing oneself.Real-life examples of how this manifests (e.g., feeling guilty about skipping a family barbecue).[19:16 - 25:00] | Resentment & Overextension: How It Builds & Why It’s a Red FlagWomen over-functioning, over-committing, and then experiencing resentment.The concept of low-grade annoyance—a warning sign that needs attention.How burnout sneaks up when you always “do unto others” but never do unto yourself.The social conditioning behind why women struggle to say no.[25:01 - 31:00] | Learning to Want Again: The Importance of Small DesiresWomen often lose touch with their own desires.The practice of reconnecting with small wants (e.g., picking a TV show, choosing breakfast).Amanda’s example: Wanting to be a singer on The Voice—allowing yourself to dream without judgment.Maggie’s personal example: Wanting lemonade at Gloria Estefan’s house![31:01 - 36:45] | Practical Steps: Reclaiming Time & Making Space for...

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