The importance and benefits of pre-teaching ourselves and our children is discussed with parenting expert Paije Baumert, a mentor from Teaching Self-Government. Paije gives a brief overview of 4 basic skills every child and adult need to understand and shares the skill she utilizes most in her daily life as a mother of an 18-month old (giving no-answers). This episode is part of the Connections within Motherhood series, airing May 2023. Call to Action: "Choose this week not to take your toddler's behaviors personally! And do a self pre-teach every day before you interact with any of your children. There, I guess I gave you two, but they go hand in hand." - Paije Baumert   Resources:  Learn more about Teaching Self Government: https://teachingselfgovernment.com/ Listen to Paije & Nicholeen on the TSG podcast: https://teachingselfgovernment.com/podcasts/ Connect with Hey, Sister! Podcast: https://heysisterpodcast.org/   Show Timeline:  0:00 Guest and topic introduction   3:15 How teaching self-government (TSG) has helped Paije in her relationships   6:00 The four basic skills: following instructions, accepting no for an answer (and criticism), accepting consequences and disagreeing appropriately   8:30 No-answers are a crucial skill for toddlers, teaching breathing to calm down before receiving a no-answer, getting out of emotional back brain into logical front brain    12:15 Using cue phrases to calm a child, “we don’t talk like that”, pre-teaching, emotional manipulation not a healthy response,    20:00 Pre-teaching explanation: telling someone what needs to happen before it happens, examples of skills to pre-teach   27:00 Skill permanence in toddlers, similar to object permanence in babies   31:30 Pre-teaching brings anxiety levels way down, role-playing is form of pre-teaching, TSG courses and mentoring calls     36:45 Call to action, concluding thoughts, outtakes

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