Listen "#70 Parent the kids you've got, not the kids you want, with Sean Donohue"
Episode Synopsis
SummaryIn this episode of the Be The Man podcast, host Greg Denning interviews parenting expert Sean Donahue. They discuss the challenges and joys of parenting, as well as the importance of being present and connected with your children. They also touch on the impact of screens on children and offer strategies for building trust and maintaining a strong relationship with your kids. The conversation highlights the need for parents to adapt to their children's interests and to avoid imposing their own expectations on them. The conversation explores the importance of parenting and provides actionable tips for being a better dad. The main theme is the need for parents to connect with their children on an emotional level and speak to their hearts. The concept of the 'heart talk' is introduced as a powerful tool for effective communication and discipline. The conversation also touches on the dangers of parenting in fear and the importance of allowing children to pursue their own interests and dreams.TakeawaysParent the child you have, not the child you wantScreens are a major challenge for parents and require proactive strategiesBuilding trust and maintaining a strong relationship with your kids is crucialAdapt to your children's interests and avoid imposing your own expectations on them Parenting is about connecting with your child's heart and speaking to their emotions.The 'heart talk' is a powerful tool for effective communication and discipline.Punishments and lectures are often ineffective in changing behavior; connecting with the child's heart is more impactful.Parenting in fear can hinder a child's growth and independence.Allowing children to pursue their own interests and dreams is important for their development.Chapters00:00Introduction and Background03:48Starting a Business and Overcoming Challenges08:37The Obstacles of Screens and Strategies for Parents11:04Parenting the Child You Have15:20Creating Excitement and Engagement in Family Life21:28The Impact of Screens on Children23:55Mistakes and Misunderstandings in Parenting29:23The Importance of Having Fun and Exercising30:22Allowing Children to Work at Their Own Pace31:51Parenting in Fear vs Parenting in Wisdom33:38Moving Away from a Screen-Based Childhood35:30Setting Boundaries for Technology Use38:49Encouraging Children to Pursue Their Dreams50:08The Power of the 'Heart Talk'54:43The Ineffectiveness of Lectures and Punishments58:04The Importance of FatherhoodRESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course!Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg’s 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast:The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for familiesExtraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's Recommended Reading List for Parents & YouthJoin theFormidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeJoin Greg’s7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:@greg.denningFollow me on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort in Portugallinktr.ee/greg.denningLeave me aReviewSend me avoice message
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