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Episode Synopsis
This episode takes Ella on a mind-blowing trip into why she uses Google Assistant to avoid asking other people for help. She shares personal experiences, past hurts, and uncovers some insightful epiphanies about her attitude about asking for help.
Loaded Questions
What expectations do I have of people I may ask for help?
Who or what taught me to expect those things when asking for help?
What does it really mean to ask for help from others?
LQ1
Expectations--A belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. Help--To give support to, to assist with, to make more pleasant, to improve a situation. To relieve.
Unpacking LQ1
Watching my mother repeatedly ask for help left me with feeling of insecurity and an inferiority complex.
I avoid(ed) asking for help to avoid dealing with my feelings and emotional state.
LQ2
My mother taught me asking for help made me a weak and inferior human being.
Unpacking LQ2
Experiences. With experience comes growth in rational people. But in irrational people, experiences leads to more of the same. [Lack of being present in her life leads to a lack of self-knowledge.]
Good judgement or discernment requires a connection between the understanding of the physical and spiritual self. The lack of spiritual awareness leads to a lack of sound actions and decisions.
LQ3
"Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide. For him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him because he did not need it." Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Unpacking LQ3
"God will not have His work made manifest by cowards." RWE The universe designed both the physical and spiritual selves to work in a symbiotic relationship. My humanity is not strong enough, not brave enough to do the work the Universe has for me. My Beast (divine self) needs my humanity to do the work the Universe has for me.
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Loaded Questions
What expectations do I have of people I may ask for help?
Who or what taught me to expect those things when asking for help?
What does it really mean to ask for help from others?
LQ1
Expectations--A belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. Help--To give support to, to assist with, to make more pleasant, to improve a situation. To relieve.
Unpacking LQ1
Watching my mother repeatedly ask for help left me with feeling of insecurity and an inferiority complex.
I avoid(ed) asking for help to avoid dealing with my feelings and emotional state.
LQ2
My mother taught me asking for help made me a weak and inferior human being.
Unpacking LQ2
Experiences. With experience comes growth in rational people. But in irrational people, experiences leads to more of the same. [Lack of being present in her life leads to a lack of self-knowledge.]
Good judgement or discernment requires a connection between the understanding of the physical and spiritual self. The lack of spiritual awareness leads to a lack of sound actions and decisions.
LQ3
"Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide. For him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him because he did not need it." Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Unpacking LQ3
"God will not have His work made manifest by cowards." RWE The universe designed both the physical and spiritual selves to work in a symbiotic relationship. My humanity is not strong enough, not brave enough to do the work the Universe has for me. My Beast (divine self) needs my humanity to do the work the Universe has for me.
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