Listen "BW 115: What I Wish I Knew as a New Widow: Essential Advice for Navigating Grief, Loneliness, and Life After Loss"
Episode Synopsis
In this heartfelt episode, I’m sharing the wisdom and lessons I wish someone had told me when I became a widow.
These are my personal insights and practical advice on how to navigate the overwhelming emotions and challenges that come with losing a spouse.
Key Takeaways:
1. **Your life isn’t over, even though it feels like it**
Rediscovering joy, holding onto hope, and building a future you’ll love are all possible.
2. **Give yourself grace**
Learn why you don’t have to be strong all the time, how to establish healthy boundaries, and the importance of taking breaks to refill your cup.
3. **Learn about grief**
Emily debunks common grief myths, explains why the 5 stages of grief aren’t the roadmap for everyone, and how to manage expectations around healing.
4. **People won’t always understand**
Discover how to handle bad advice, judgments, and the well-meaning but hurtful things people say. Plus, why it’s crucial to ask for help and accept it when offered.
5. **Building a new life that you love**
You don’t need to have all the answers right now, but there is hope. Emily shares how to embody the life you want for the future, even when you feel lost.
00:49 Reflecting on Widowhood
01:53 Life Isn't Over
07:52 Give Yourself Grace
15:12 Learning About Grief
20:21 People Won't Understand
24:30 Building a New Life
31:02 Recap and Final Thoughts
31:52 Join the Brave Widow Community
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