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Listen "5. Beyond Saying No - the courage to hold your boundaries"
Episode Synopsis
"A boundary isn’t a wall; it’s an act of presence."
You finally say no. You draw the line. You set the boundary.
But what happens when it’s met with tension, pushback, or even silence?
In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne explore what it really takes to hold a boundary after you’ve set it. From freeze responses and people-pleasing to emotional overshadowing and group dynamics, we unpack why staying with your truth, especially under pressure, can be so challenging.
You’ll hear:
Why systems often resist change when you shift your role
What makes holding a boundary harder than setting it
How your nervous system might override your good intentions
What to do when you’ve ‘lost’ your boundary in the moment
How to stay in relationship and stay true to yourself
We also share Sarah’s story, a listener who set a boundary at work and was met with guilt-tripping and backlash, and reflect on what we can all learn from it.
This is an episode about repair, return, and resilience. Boundaries don’t expire. You can always come back to your centre.
Resources & Tools Mentioned:
Emotional Overshadowing – How group dynamics and dominant emotions can drown out your inner voice
Relational Boundaries – Staying in contact with yourself and the other person
Nervous system responses – Why silence or freeze isn’t failure, it’s your body’s way of protecting you
Repairing a boundary – Simple steps to return to your boundary after the moment has passed
Try This:
Think of a moment when you didn’t hold your boundary.
Pause.
Reflect: What was your truth? What did you want to say?
Now, write it down, or speak it aloud to yourself. It’s not too late.
Links:
Learn more about Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology
Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more on embodied leadership
Subscribe to Beyond the Corporate Mask on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Other platforms
Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology.
Let’s lead without hiding ourselves.
You finally say no. You draw the line. You set the boundary.
But what happens when it’s met with tension, pushback, or even silence?
In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne explore what it really takes to hold a boundary after you’ve set it. From freeze responses and people-pleasing to emotional overshadowing and group dynamics, we unpack why staying with your truth, especially under pressure, can be so challenging.
You’ll hear:
Why systems often resist change when you shift your role
What makes holding a boundary harder than setting it
How your nervous system might override your good intentions
What to do when you’ve ‘lost’ your boundary in the moment
How to stay in relationship and stay true to yourself
We also share Sarah’s story, a listener who set a boundary at work and was met with guilt-tripping and backlash, and reflect on what we can all learn from it.
This is an episode about repair, return, and resilience. Boundaries don’t expire. You can always come back to your centre.
Resources & Tools Mentioned:
Emotional Overshadowing – How group dynamics and dominant emotions can drown out your inner voice
Relational Boundaries – Staying in contact with yourself and the other person
Nervous system responses – Why silence or freeze isn’t failure, it’s your body’s way of protecting you
Repairing a boundary – Simple steps to return to your boundary after the moment has passed
Try This:
Think of a moment when you didn’t hold your boundary.
Pause.
Reflect: What was your truth? What did you want to say?
Now, write it down, or speak it aloud to yourself. It’s not too late.
Links:
Learn more about Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology
Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more on embodied leadership
Subscribe to Beyond the Corporate Mask on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Other platforms
Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology.
Let’s lead without hiding ourselves.
In God we trust