#3 - Let's rewire : Safety is not about Certainty, it's about Trust

07/04/2025 30 min

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Episode Synopsis

Hey Bestie ! Safety is something we all crave. It’s one of our most natural human needs yet so many of us struggleto feel safe in the unknown…In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into something that hits home for so many of us: the way we define safety… and how often we confuse it with certainty. How many times have you rushed to make a decision just because the unknown felt terrifying? Whether it’s relationships, projects, or life transitions, we’ve been taught to cling to clarity like it’s our lifeline. But what if safety didn’t come from knowing what’s next… but from something else ?Here is what we’re unpacking:✨ Why our nervous system craves certainty and how it links back to past chaos or heartbreak✨ How rushing into clarity is often a defense mechanism rooted in fear✨ A reframe: safety doesn’t only come from control, it can also come from surrender✨ Practical tools to build trust in yourself, in life, and in divine timing (even when nothing makes sense)Plus, I will share some personal life moments where I too rushed or almost rushed into deciding / acting just to escape the discomfort of the unknown. Because we’ve all been there. But today? We’re choosing a new path 🙏🏽Grab your tea, take a deep breath, and let’s explore what it really means to feel safe—not because we haveall the answers, but because we’ve got our own back.Let’s get into it, bestie. 🎙✨Disclaimer: I know that for some of us, we are struggling with the opposite: not being able to decide until we feel like we have all the answers & the mechanisms behind that are quitesimilar too. I just feel like this is something that is already addressed a lot & that is why I wanted to focus on the opposite today 😊!✨ Connect with me on socials & let’s chat about this episode!​Personal Instagram account : Minabkri: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/minabkri?igsh=MXM1OWg4bjBhZ2Q1Mw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠​Poetry Instagram account : uncensored.ink ⁠https://www.instagram.com/uncensored.ink?igsh=MXZlbjU4NTF3eW8zZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠​Link to my book « Bits of (my) Love » ⁠https://urlr.me/ZsPzx⁠✨ And remember, Bestie: you deserve great things.