Do Moms Ever Really Spoil Their Kids?

04/08/2025 16 min Temporada 1 Episodio 18
Do Moms Ever Really Spoil Their Kids?

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Last week I was curled up on the couch, Estelle asleep on my chest, her little head tucked right under my chin. And as the house quieted, those familiar voices crept in again..."she’s too attached, you’re spoiling her, she needs to learn to sleep alone." But something in my body softened as I held her close. I knew it then: I’m not doing it wrong, I’m doing what’s right for us.If you’ve ever second guessed your instincts because of what someone else said about how you should parent, this one’s for you.In this episode of Ask Me How I’m Really Doing, I talk about postpartum identity, attachment parenting, and how embracing imperfection has helped me reconnect with myself and trust my gut as a mom. If you’re navigating the mental load and mom guilt that comes with doing things differently, you are not alone.💫 Timestamped Highlights🛋️ (00:01) Holding Estelle on my chest and letting the noise of other people’s opinions fade📺 (02:45) The moment from The Handmaid’s Tale that still gives me chills🧠 (04:48) Why our babies shouldn’t know how to be alone at 3 months💡 (06:45) The night I learned my newborn just needed to be held🏥 (08:59) A nurse’s knowing smile and how it gave me permission🤍 (12:40) The reminder every mom needs: If it feels good, you’re doing it right🌱 Dream Seed Journal PromptReflect on a recent imperfect moment in motherhood. What did it teach you? Not what you should’ve done differently, but what truth or tenderness surfaced underneath the chaos.Every time you choose connection over perfection, you’re showing up and that’s enough.Come listen. I saved you a seat.Hadiya ☕️ 💖FOLLOW ME AROUNDSubscribe on YouTube: @HadiyaCoppedgeFollow on TikTok: @HadiyaCoppedgeRitual Club: Save My SeatDOWNLOADS📥 Download the Tiny Wins Tracker